MEM is the most subtle, yet profound, modality I have ever come across. It’s professional without feeling clinical, it’s the right amount of alternative without feeling undefined. It’s truly the missing link that ties in the countless years and dollars spent on endless self-development work, provided a person is willing and ready to accept what is and what isn’t.

When we tell the world we want to be healed yet we tell ourselves we’re broken and unfixable, we’ve self sabotaged before we even gave ourselves a chance to witness that the sabotage came from us. We allow the assumption that ‘it didn’t work’ and that outside forces are to blame, offering the perfect opportunity to gather further evidence to support our self-loathing case. This was me and I used to pride myself on my self-sabotaging skills (like I was some wizard, Harry) to prove to the world that my abandonment issues were very real and by doing so my existence felt momentarily justified.

If a person is ready to befriend themselves it means they are ready to stop lying to themselves and MEM will immediately give them that lifelong friendship they’ve always dreamt of, because once they experience their true self they can no longer hide.

I would have to say that MEM directly hands a person back their full sovereignty and total autonomy, so that they can finally live peacefully at one within themselves and create whatever it is they wish to create from a place of real choice, rather than out of fear. So be prepared to feel spacious for these decisions.

I understand that experiencing space can feel a little daunting or even quite boring at first – that peace can feel like a kind of nothingness but that’s the whole point – if we create the space for the nothingness, we then hold the power of potentiality for the everythingness! That’s the fun part we then get to explore moving forward.

For me being at peace offers the most magnificent opportunity to explore creation in its most pure form with no agenda or expectation of how future creations will be perceived by the rest of the world. Because now, no opinion could be more important than my own.

For the first time in my life I can finally make art for the sake of making art and ironically that’s when my best creations form. I have full trust in my journey ahead because whatever I do is purely out of self expression and I get to enjoy the process rather than anxiously relying on the end result to bring me satisfaction. And when I say “make art” I’m not only talking about using my hands for skillful creation, I’m also talking about perfecting the art of be-ing and painting my life into a masterpiece…

From now on when I create something, there’s no longer the fear or doubt that creeps in – the shoulds & shouldn’ts – I’m no longer seeking approval or validation through my work or in my relationships. I am free to just be, and explore me without the noise or distractions.

I am unbelievably grateful for my foundation session with Quinika and I will spend a lifetime indebted to this modality because MEM has truly gifted me my life back in its full capacity. Now I get to take this new found sense of freedom and run with the wind.

What a privilege it is to reap the benefits of this quantum shift and to truly experience life’s wonder, mystery, awe & sheer beauty. In every peaceful moment I get to be and exist for the sake of existing rather than being burdened by distraction and stress or driven by unrealistic ambition. I get to create and express myself from this fruitful place of abundance and even if I do nothing, it’s okay because my existence alone is creative enough.

I have full faith in my future, whether it be making art or babies, because I know I will be making clear decisions that are right for me, by me, and not from unreconciled past challenges that have kept me feeling stuck and forced me to fumble into my future out of fear from pain and past trauma.

I am finally free.

It’s hard to find the words to describe what happened in my session because it almost sounds too good to be true.

I’m 26, I run a solar and electrical business through the week and surf and dive on the weekends. Throughout my life I’ve always been ‘good’ and I have always felt positive and optimistic about the future. Whenever there have been times when negative thoughts and emotions have come up, I’ve pushed them to the back to be dealt with later or forgotten about. Not the best practice.

The MEM session brought everything to the surface and dealt with it. Literally from the depths of the abyss from where they were buried haha, and then physically dis-created them. It was a very freeing sensation and felt like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders, which I didn’t even know I was carrying.

Thanks Quin, really makes me feel prepared for the future.

Well worth the small amount of money, just the feeling of positivity going into each day is worth it.

Working with Quinika through the MEM process was truly transformative. Before the session, I found myself constantly overwhelmed, frequently snappy, irritable, and reactive. It felt like I was always on edge, especially during challenging moments with my son and in my marriage. However, after just two session, everything started to shift in such a positive direction.

I noticed immediately that I became much calmer, even during my son’s tantrums, and I felt more grounded throughout the day. One of the most powerful changes has been the positive shift in my marriage, where after five years of struggles, things are finally moving in a better direction. I’m more present, appreciative, and grateful for the moments I have, which has transformed my outlook.

Additionally, I’ve noticed a huge decrease in self-sabotage and the excuses I would often make. I feel empowered and more confident in my choices and actions. Thank you, Quinika, I’m so thankful for the session and the clarity it has brought into my life.

I’m a first time mom in my late twenties. Over the years I’ve dealt with extreme menstrual pain (diagnosed with PCOS), tension and resentment in my relationships and I’ve had many goals that I never believed in myself enough to reach (or even attempt to reach).

Having had the gift of becoming parents last year, my husband and I have been faced with the challenges that come with uncharted territory. Life got harder. My new baseline was overwhelm. The changes not only to my lifestyle, but also myself as a person, translated to tension in our relationship.

Until my MEM session, I was completely unaware that I was living in a constant state of resentment (which was being taken out on my husband) and creating a victim narrative I was very attached to.

Since my session, I have felt such a wonderful sense of ease and overall positivity. Those goals don’t seem so out of reach anymore. When relating, I find myself expressing far more authentically and with more awareness and consideration for others, which I struggled with a lot in the past. The resentment feeling is completely gone and has not come back. In its place I feel generous and receptive.

During my session it also became obvious to me that this resentment had been at the root of my PCOS and menstrual pain.

MEM has allowed me to fully relax into the fulfilling and inspiring journey that motherhood provides while developing an ever deeper and more united relationship with my husband.

I can feel my untapped potential available to me.

I have to say that reactions to certain situations have changed for me. I find myself responding rather than reacting to situations that would have left me emotionally affected. It’s difficult to explain, for example I still feel angry in that moment but it dissipates and there is no charge. I’m not holding on to emotion or feeling all the past hurts that would normally cascade from it.

I feel happy and joyful and wanting to be around people in social situations.

I’m looking forward to experiencing work and how I am there, the real me!

[Since MEM] I have noticed that I’m more clear headed and trusting of the unfolding of things. I was also thrilled to feel on track with following some intuition and my appetite for things!

The MEM experience was like doing a detox intense that provided a valuable reset and pivot.

I’m now merging into a new internal direction based on more honesty with myself.

I have no hesitancy to recommend this work to others.