HELEN AMERY

MEM PRACTITIONER

I work with people who outwardly look like they’re doing great – they have a decent job, often their own business, they run a house, they have family commitments, and they have friends and a social life. On the outside it looks like everything’s good. But inside it doesn’t feel like that. Inside it feels like it’s going wrong, and something needs to change.

What I’ve seen is that my clients who are in this situation are then in one of these two groups:

1. They’re over-working, over-giving and taking on far too much responsibility. Busy all the time with no idea how to stop because then it feels like things will go wrong. And they’ll be to blame.
2. They’re unmotivated. They’ve lost their mojo. Their spark. They feel like they’re dragging themselves through life. Feeling like they should be doing more but they just can’t access the energy or drive they used to have.

The Mace Energy Method helps with both of these.

I was in the first group. My name’s Helen, and I used to be addicted to over-giving. I felt like there was something wrong with me – although I never really knew that was the problem until after Mace. What I did experience was self-doubt. Questioning whether I was doing the right thing. Questioning what other people would think of what I was doing. Questioning what they would think about me – whether they would like me for doing it, or get upset with me, or cross with me. Second guessing. Over thinking. Over complicating. Essentially looking to cues from the outside – for someone else to validate me and tell me I was doing the right thing – rather than knowing it for myself. And in this desperate attempt to get it right for other people I was then doing and giving far too much of me. Spending far too much time trying to please others. And then getting frustrated that ‘they’ weren’t giving more back to me in gratitude for everything I was doing for them. I thought they were so rude, ignorant, ungrateful.

But maybe you’re in the second group. My clients who’ve lost their mojo find that they ‘should’ on themselves a lot. You should be doing this. You should be doing that. Why haven’t you done this? You should be like you used to be. What’s happened to you? When are you going to get your act together? All that kind of stuff. And so they feel lethargic. Sometimes they can sleep easily, and yet still feel tired. They’re pushing their way through. Forcing, efforting, trying. Including trying to make other people do things they ‘should’ be doing too. And feeling bad because it looks like they have everything they could ever want, but they don’t feel good about any of it. They just want their life, their power, and aliveness back.

There was an instant yes when I heard about Mace – both to help me, and to train as a practitioner. I’ve spent years in self-development and spiritual exploration, looking for ways to go deeper and deeper, to resolve the frustrations and doubts in my life, and in the lives of my clients. All I wanted was to feel at ease and comfortable within myself. And Mace has made that fully possible.

It gets to the root cause of the negative thoughts and feelings you have about yourself. It cleans up all the emotional baggage you’ve collected through your life. As one of my clients said, ‘The only way I can describe it is I feel cleansed’.

And the even better news is you can go straight to Mace as the solution.

I took the long route round. Starting in psychology-based coaching, I’d tried to reframe my thoughts and learn positive beliefs. It worked for a while, but it took a lot of effort, and then my reactivity just kept showing up with my kids instead. This took me into a spiritual exploration and the recognition that there was something much deeper about who I am than just being this person. It was life-changing. But there were a lot of areas of life that I still didn’t like and wanted to change.

So then I moved to work with emotions. Getting in direct contact with how they felt in the body. Using approaches like Internal Family Systems (IFS) to try and include and bring harmony on the inside. And using traditional energy work modalities to clear the unwanted experiences. This had some effect…but in fact what all this really did was reveal the negative identity that was sitting underneath it all, driving the whole thing. And it was still driving the whole thing.

Which was when I discovered the Mace Energy Method. I could see it was the most direct and deep approach I’d ever come across – getting to the specific source of the problem and guaranteeing results, without the need for all those years of excavation that I’d done. This was exactly what I was looking for.

Want to know more about me?

I’m a mum of two teenagers, living in the East Midlands in the UK, with my husband, my kids, a cat and a bearded dragon. I started in corporate HR before becoming a self-employed coach in 2014 – first in leadership, and then, once my spiritual exploration began, I changed to work with individuals – they were people like me who wanted to be relieved of their human suffering.

I co-authored the book “The Complete Book of Awakening” in 2022, and continue to work with my partner in that business, guiding people in their awakenings and broader spiritual journeys.

In my own business – Wild Fig Solutions – my focus has always been on finding the most root-cause ways to clear up our human conditioning. To clear out the clutter and let more innate energy and enjoyment flow in our lives. Now Mace provides the perfect way to do that.

I look forward to getting you back in charge of your life – feeling alive and making a difference.

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